after I came out..

At the time that I came out of the closet, even people who loved, I felt like they were acting strange with me, at the beginning it made me uncofortable, but with time I learn that this is actually okay, because they tend to feel like you are different person, remember that when you come out of the closet you are the one whom changes in peoples minds, so dont be scare if your friends of family feel weird, maybe some maybe act weird but give them sometime to grasp of the idea that you are not something you used to be for them. Of course in your mind you will feel like nothing has change because you have always been you, but other people might not know how to behave in front of you anymore, be patient with them(well with your true friends) teach them, what bothers you, what you really feel fowards stuff like offfensive words and other misunderstandings of gay people.  I remember when I came out of the closet to my best friends, it was not big of a deal, why?, because if they are your true friends they will know who you are. Just like when I told my dad I was, he said; I am not surprised, since you were like three years old you would wear your sister's skirt and dance with it. :)